Dear EFAP: Drinking Diva
Thank you to those who have written to “dear efap” for input on your dilemmas. As you are aware, we read every inquiry that comes in but we are only able to print a small selection of responses. Our “pithy” answers are modeled after the lighter hearted Dear Abby style and are grounded in common sense. If your issues require a more personalized level of support please call EFAP (1-800-505-4929) and we can confidentially book you a counselling appointment with a senior level therapist.
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This summer was like one big beach party – I drank all sorts of fruity, overpriced cocktails on trendy patios during happy hour and, truth be told, often at home as well before leaving for cocktail hour (it kept starting earlier and earlier in the day). Now I am back into work mode (ugh), I don’t love my job but it pays the bills and affords me the ability to do the same next summer. I’m realizing, though, that I’m still turning to the cocktails, but without the beach or a patio. I’m worried that I may have a problem, what should I do?
- Drinking Diva
Dear Drinking Diva
Good job that you’ve noticed that drinking seems to be running you a bit more than you are running it, it sounds like you could use a bit of support to work this out. It’s fine to want a drink, that’s different from needing a drink and needing one regularly and at an elevated volume. These are warning signs, and it takes courage to be honest about this stuff. You, my friend, have courage as you are looking at this head on. What should you do? Consider calling EFAP and talking this out with a trusted, confidential counsellor – you do not have to stand up to this on your own. If EFAP is not for you, Alcoholics Anonymous has a line you can call for support as well. Many deal with this issue, but few are honest. You’re on the right track by questioning your actions and to reaching out, just make a call and know that you are not alone.
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